Coaching that works with who you are

Whether you're neurodivergent, burned out, feeling stuck, or figuring things out - I can help.

ICF trained • For adults and teens • Online worldwide • English & Spanish

You might be here because...

If you're an adult:

  • You feel overwhelmed most of the time

  • You're exhausted and can't keep going like this

  • You've been diagnosed and don't know what to do next

  • You're going through a big life change or transition

  • You know where you want to be, but not how to get there

  • You've lost yourself trying to keep up with everything

  • Nothing you try seems to stick

If you're a teen:

  • School feels impossible, no matter how hard you try

  • You've been diagnosed and don't know what it means

  • You feel like everyone else has it figured out except you

  • Your parents don't understand what you're dealing with

  • You know you're capable, but can't seem to show it

  • You're facing big decisions and feel overwhelmed

  • Nothing you try actually works

You're not broken. You're not failing. You don't need to try harder. You need support designed for you.

This is where coaching can help

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Mighty oaks from little acorns grow
— Chaucer

How coaching works

Small steps, mighty results

Coaching helps you reduce overwhelm, build confidence and move forward in a way that feels manageable and sustainable.

We break things down into small, practical steps so you can make progress without burning out.

We focus on what feels possible now, building steadily towards something more stable and manageable.

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How I can support you


ADHD/AuDHD

If you feel overwhelmed, struggle to finish things, or find focus difficult

What we work on:

  • Reducing overwhelm

  • Building structure that fits your brain

  • Following through more consistently

  • Managing emotions and energy


    Learn more about ADHD Coaching

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Burnout

If you're exhausted and what used to work no longer does

What we work on:

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Life

If you feel stuck, unsure about your direction, or facing change

What we work on:

  • Gaining clarity on what you want

  • Making decisions with confidence

  • Moving forward when you're unsure how

  • Navigating change and transitions



    Learn more about Life Coaching

Why "The Oak"?

Like oaks growing from acorns, lasting change starts small.

We take things one step at a time, building towards something stronger and more sustainable.

No pressure. No quick fixes. Just steady progress.

Testimonials

Working with Jules helped me discover my true soul purpose and unlock a path I never imagined possible.

Thanks to Jules I completely turned my life around. What started as a goal to sing once a week became a whole new career as a professional singer and choir leader.

I arrived to Jules full of fears, with a project that was completely stuck. Thanks to Jules’ accompaniment I found my focus, took decisions and made concrete steps. Jules’ clarity, structure and empathy have been key to my progress and helped me transform my blocks into action.

About

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Jules Coles
Founder and Coach

Hi, I’m Jules

I’m a neurodivergent coach specialising in ADHD/AuDHD, burnout and life coaching. I support people who feel overwhelmed, stuck or unsure what to do next, helping them find ways forward that actually work for their brain and their life.

My work combines professional expertise with lived experience. I’m neurodivergent myself and the parent of a neurodivergent child, so I understand both the personal and practical realities this can bring.

Before coaching, I spent 25 years working in global organisations as a corporate consultant and Diversity, Equity, Inclusion and Belonging programme manager. I now bring that experience into my work as a start-up builder, alongside my one-to-one coaching practice.

My approach is warm, practical and neuroaffirming. I don’t believe you need fixing. I help you understand how you work best with your strengths, and build simple, sustainable ways of moving forward.

I work with clients in English and Spanish.

How we work together

  1. Free discovery call (30 minutes) we talk about what you're finding difficult or what you’d like to achieve and whether coaching feels right for you. There's no pressure to continue.

  2. Start with what matters most we focus on what feels most important or overwhelming right now.

  3. Build strategies that fit your life simple approaches designed around your brain, your energy and your routine.

  4. Adjust as you go coaching adapts to you, not the other way round. If something’s not working, we’ll find the right way together

Most people work with me for 3 to 6 months, with sessions every 1 to 2 weeks. My fees are flexible and accessible.

My Coaching Credentials

ADHD/AuDHD and other Neurodivergent Coaching

ADDCA
Professional Advanced ADHD Coach Training Certification Program. ICF Level 2.

Attuned Approach
Certificate in Neurodiversity Coaching. Accredited by Association of Coaches (AC) (in progress)

MentorCoach
Positive Psychology and Advanced ADHD Coaching: College Students, Teens, Children & Parents. ICF Level 1.

Burnout

Balanceology
ICF Accredited Burnout Coach

Life

D’Arte Human Business School
Masters in Professional Coaching, Emotional Intelligence and NLP (1500 hours). ICF Level 1.

Ikigai Tribe
The Ikigai Tribe Coach Certification program

The Oak Coaching.
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